Irrational Fears

There is this common template for a nightmare.

You are late to class. Everyone in your class is writing something.

You freeze.

You realize that there was a test scheduled for this period. And you forgot.

Now you have to take a test completely unprepared. You sweat.

You wake up. It actually feels good that at least the real world isn't as scary.

Variation of this nightmare occurs to almost all of us, even when you are long past the age for taking a test in a class. Which other irrational fears are we carrying with us into the adulthood?

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